Faye HATES the harness. Monday, she was fine and happy and was napping pretty well. Monday night and over night she screamed almost the entire night. I slept from 1-3am and than again from 5:30-6:30am. 3 whole hours of sleep. Tuesday, I got desperate enough to take the bus over to my sister's house. Faye passed out as soon as I put her in the wrap and stayed asleep the entire time we were busing, etc. We got to my sister's house, took her out, changed her diaper, etc and she screamed bloody murder for 99% of the time I was at my sister's house. She slept in the carseat on the way home and screamed more at home. I took the harness off for the night, which I'm not sure if I am even allowed to do, but she was completely content and relaxed. We laid on the bed together just staring at each other and chatting. She wiggled her legs and her arms around in a comfortable, relaxed way and just stared at stuff. She fell asleep on her own and I slept most of the night with my boob hanging out because she loves to nursing lying down (which she cannot do in the harness):
She screamed her head off when I put the harness back on this morning. She was quite for a little while up in the kitchen this morning while I walked around with her. She started to fall asleep, but she couldn't, so she woke up and was crying again. I put her in the wrap and she has been sleeping for awhile now. I called and left a message at Gillette. I'm hoping that I can wear her in this wrap and that I can take the harness off at night. The Triage nurse was pretty sure that the best time for the harness to be on is at night. It will definitely be a GREAT thing if I can wear her in the wrap though. If I can wear her for 2-3 hours 2-3 times a day, she should get enough sleep to hold her over and maybe allow her to sleep easier at night. She is getting NO daytime sleep at this point and besides last night with out the harness, no night time sleep either.
I also feel really bad for her because it is uncomfortable for both of us to nurse, so comfort nursing isn't very comforting for her. I can only nurse her in the cradle position, but with one arm in between her legs and one arm under her head. Her legs are spread and bent so that one knee is on my opposite boob and the other is on my hip bone.